🔥🕊️ Waiting Without Withering - Staying Oily So the Fire Lasts

Scripture assures us that God is with us, in us, and among us. Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever (Hebrews 13:8). Immanuel is not seasonal. God’s presence does not rise with our momentum or fade with our fatigue. He does not draw nearer through fasting, nor does He withdraw when emotions settle. He remains constant.

And yet, many believers are still faithful, still present, still obedient—while feeling worn. Not because Jesus Christ has changed, but because dependence has quietly shifted. When we begin carrying what was never meant to be carried apart from Jesus Christ Himself—God Almighty, the Uncreated One, the faithful God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob—weariness follows. Not from a lack of strength in Christ, but from life lived outside continual reliance on Him.

Waiting Is Not Absence — It Is Alignment

The Bible never presents waiting as passivity or punishment. Waiting is not spiritual stagnation. Waiting is active trust, sustained dependence, and continued obedience when outcomes are delayed.

“Those who wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength” (Isaiah 40:31).
This renewal is not the creation of strength that was missing. It is the restoration of strength that already belongs to those who are in Christ. Waiting realigns us to the supply we stepped away from—not because God moved, but because we did.

Weariness Is Addressed — Not Condemned

The apostle Paul speaks directly to faithful believers when he writes:

“Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up” (Galatians 6:9).

This exhortation is not aimed at the disobedient. It is written to those who are already sowing, serving, loving, and remaining faithful. When read in context, Paul is not addressing personal burnout alone—he is addressing endurance in community.

He continues:

“Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers” (Galatians 6:10).

Weariness threatens love, patience, and unity long before it threatens belief. Faithfulness was never meant to terminate with the individual—it is meant to bless the body.

Fire Without Oil Is Dangerous

Many believers begin seasons on fire—especially at the start of a new year. Fasting sharpens hunger. Consecration ignites zeal. Encounters awaken desire.

But fire that burns hot and not long is dangerous.

Jesus illustrated this truth in the parable of the ten virgins. All were waiting. All had lamps. All had oil. But only some brought enough oil to endure the delay.

Fire was not the issue.
Oil was.

Oil Is for Protection, Not Performance

When a shepherd anointed sheep with oil, it was not ceremonial—it was practical. Oil protected vulnerable places. It prevented irritation from becoming infection. It stopped small things from becoming destructive things.

Spiritually, oil looks like this:

  • prayer without ceasing, rooted in Jesus Christ

  • Scripture shaping how we think, speak, and treat others

  • abiding in the presence of God, not merely visiting it

  • remaining tender toward the body of Christ

Oil does not make us louder.
Oil keeps us healthy.

And oil is never just for the individual.

Anointed for the Body, Not Just the Self

The gifts God gives, the blessings He provides, and the anointing He pours out are not meant to end with us. They are meant to flow through us.

When we stay oily:

  • our patience blesses others

  • our discernment protects unity

  • our peace stabilizes the community

  • our fruit feeds those around us

Neglecting oil does not only affect us personally—it impacts the body corporately. This is why Scripture ties endurance directly to continued goodness toward others.

Waiting With Praise and Worship

So we wait—not idle, not discouraged, not withdrawn—but covered, connected, and aligned with Jesus Christ, God Almighty, until the appointed time. And while we wait, we worship.

Praise during waiting is often a sacrifice. Scripture tells us, “Through Jesus Christ, therefore, let us continually offer to God a sacrifice of praise—the fruit of lips that openly profess His name” (Hebrews 13:15).

There are seasons when praise does not come easily—when outcomes are delayed and emotions are quiet. Yet worship offered in those moments is not hypocrisy; it is obedience.

When we praise and worship Jesus Christ, our focus is lifted. “I lift up my eyes to the hills—where does my help come from?” (Psalm 121:1). Worship shifts our gaze from what surrounds us to Who sustains us. Instead of looking down and around at the pressures and uncertainties of life, praise lifts our eyes upward.

God does not inhabit our anxiety or our striving—but He inhabits the praises of His people (Psalm 22:3). Praise does not bring God closer—He is already present—but it reorients our hearts to His nearness.

Worship keeps our hearts soft, our perspective lifted, and our faith anchored while we wait.

Waiting Without Withering

Waiting without oil leads to withering.
Waiting with oil leads to renewal.

God is not asking us to strive harder or manufacture strength. Strength already belongs to us in Jesus Christ. What He calls us to is continued dependence—remaining rooted in Him.

Waiting is not the absence of God’s work.
It is the preservation of it.

And when the moment comes—when the door opens, when the timing is revealed—the question will not be whether we had fire…

But whether we tended the oil.

Closing Prayer

Lord Jesus Christ,
You are the same yesterday, today, and forever—faithful to complete what You have begun.

We submit ourselves again to You—not in striving, not in fear, but in full and humble dependence. Cleanse us from all unrighteousness, and heal us from every form of spiritual infection, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. Let every place of irritation be covered and healed before it becomes infected. Let nothing small be allowed to grow destructive in us, in Jesus’ name.

Let every place of weariness be met with renewed alignment to You—not by effort, but by abiding. Teach us to dwell in Your shelter and to rest under Your shadow, where strength is preserved, peace is sustained, and faith is renewed. Guard us from burning bright and burning out. Preserve us as a people who endure.

Keep our hearts soft, our hands clean, and our love sincere—especially toward the household of faith. Where the enemy seeks to sow division, establish unity. Where discouragement has whispered lies, restore truth. Where delay has tested obedience, establish trust.

We lift our eyes to You, Lord Jesus—our help, our strength, our Shepherd. Anchor us in Your presence. Establish us in obedience. And keep us ready, with oil in our lamps, until the appointed time.

We declare that the harvest will come—not by force, not by flesh, but by Your Spirit.

In the mighty, unchanging, and matchless name of Jesus Christ,
Amen.

Tiffani Grady

Coach Minister, Tiffani Grady

Servant Founder & Architect of Kingdom Transformation for Spirit Led Ministries

My name is Coach Minister, Tiffani Grady, and I am simply a servant—called, appointed, and anointed by the Holy Spirit to build what God has entrusted to my hands. Spirit Led Ministries was birthed from a vision the Lord gave me: a place where the Gospel is proclaimed with purity, where the love of Jesus Christ is demonstrated through tangible acts of compassion, and where believers are discipled into a deeper walk of faith.

From the very beginning, God made it clear that SLM would not be built by human strategy, but by Holy Spirit leadership, obedience, and surrendered dependence. He revealed to me a blueprint—just as He did with Noah, Moses, and David—showing me that my role is not only to minister to people but to architect the structure, culture, and spiritual foundation of this ministry. Everything we do flows from Jesus’s command in Matthew 25:40 and His call to love God wholly and love our neighbor selflessly.

I serve as a Christian Counselor Coach, an ordained minister, and a graduate with a degree in Leadership and Ministry. These God-given tools help equip me to walk alongside individuals with wisdom, biblical insight, and the heart of a shepherd. But above all, my qualification is this: God called me. Every teaching, every outreach, every devotional, and every act of service is guided by the voice of the Holy Spirit and grounded in the Word of God.

My heart burns to see lives transformed—not by human strength, but by the power of God. Through weekly Bible studies, communal meals, Holy Communion, prayer, outreach, and practical assistance such as gas cards and Wave card reloads, SLM exists to live out the Gospel in a way that restores dignity, builds community, and draws souls to Christ.

As the Servant Founder & Architect of Kingdom Transformation, I am committed to:

• Building a Christ-centered community of believers

• Demonstrating the love of Jesus through service

• Teaching biblical truth with clarity and compassion

• Creating safe spaces for healing, fellowship, and spiritual growth

• Listening to the Holy Spirit in everything

My story is still unfolding, and so is SLM—but one thing is certain: God is the Builder. I am simply His vessel, saying “yes” to the blueprint He has placed before me.

If the Lord has led you here, welcome. You are loved, you are seen, and you are part of what God is doing through Spirit Led Ministries.

https://www.spiritledministriesgr.com
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